The New Wife's Survival Guide

 STOP FEELING LIKE A BAD WIFE. START FULLY LOVING MARRIED LIFE. 

Do you ever ask, "Am I the only one who feels like this?' or 'Do other couples struggle with this like we do...? 

Ever felt like a bad wife...or find that you compare your marriage to your friends' or couples online? 

Wonder what the heck happened to your fairytale when you're frustrated with him? 

Feel stuck in a rut in what's supposed to be the 'honeymoon' period of marriage?

Sister, you need the New Wive's Survival Guide.  

If you're engaged or have been married for less than 5 years, and you're wanting to overcome self-doubt, tackle the tough transitions into marriage, and feel way less 'alone' in these first few years, this 75+ page ebook guide will help you stop feeling like a bad wife and instead, start fully loving married life (before you rock at it).  

THE NEW WIFE'S SURVIVAL GUIDE

Real & Relatable Lessons for Every Engaged and Newlywed Girl


IN THIS GUIDE, WE'RE TACKLING:

  • What to do when you're 'not in the mood'
  • Handling discouragement and unmet expecations
  • How to identify and remove unhealthy tendencies and replacethem with healthier habits 
  • The frustration that can come when he isn't exactly being the spiritual leader church has always told you he should be
  • Aligning your goals, disciplines, and routines more clearly
  • How to handle when one of you makes a major financial mistake
  • Dreaming together instead of apart
  • Balancing your friendships with your marriage
  • Praying for and with each other
  • Evaluating what excuses you might be making
  • Creating an environment where imperfections, flaws, and vulnerability is welcome, accepted, and encouraged
  • Living what you vowed to do even when you don't feel like it
  • Getting on the same page on the little things
  • Petty arguments and simple ideas to handle them with more patience
  • Communicating your desires more clearly instead of expecting him to read your mind
  • Dealing with long distance even after you're past the "dating" phase
  • Creating healthy boundaries in your home and with your other relationships
  • AND SO MUCH MORE...

Do you feel... 

disappointed by unmet expectations... frustrated by your different strengths and weaknesses... unheard... disconnected... like a crappy wife...  

...and confused as to why because these first few years (before the stress of kids and mortgages and more) are 'supposed' to be the happiest years of your marriage... aren't they?  

If your hand went up, even the tiniest bit...

YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE. 

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So many of us believe we're the only one feeling 'this' or 'that' way because so few of us are willing to really talk about these things. Let's change that.

YOUR MARRIAGE IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY, SISTER.

I'm not an expert at marriage but I have experienced a lot of what you might be feeling.

In other words, I get it. I've been where you've been. I've lost my cool and broke down crying and overthought and made assumptions and wondered if I'm the only new wife in the world who felt like her fairytale got snatched the second it got hard.

I'm in the thick of those first few years of marriage myself. Those years where you're trying to get your foundation beneath you and focus in on how you want to build your family. Those in between years before you have kids but after you tie the knot, where it's just the two of you in the tension of the transition. 

I've read several marriage books and done counseling and learned all I could about how to be a better wife and build a strong marriage. While those resources helped, I found that in spite of my most noble efforts, there have still been days that I've felt like the worst wife in the world.

And one day, I got to thinking, "There has GOT to be other women my age who feel this way...but we hardy talk about this season...these first few years...We hardly walk through them together."

And so, I created a resource that has been designed to feel like a place where you are understood but also challenged to consistently strive for growth and improvement.

Along with this guide, you'll also get a rad community of other new wives to do life with.  

This resource will help you not only grow and find simple strategies to implement and improve these first few years but will also give you a place to feel way less 'alone' and 10x more understood.


CHAPTER BREAKDOWN

BRAVING THE WILDERNESS OF WIFE LIFE

  • Survival Tip #1: What to Do When You're Not 'In the Mood'
  • Survival Tip #2: Why You Need Shower Moments (It's Not What You Think)
  • Survival Tip #3: How to Prepare for Petty Arguments that Pop Up
  • Survival Tip #4: What to Do When One Of You Makes a Dumb Financial Move 
  • Survival Tip #5: What to Do When He Gets a Cat (Or Something Else You Don’t Want…) 
  • Survival Tip #6: Stop Saying, 'He's Not Leading'
  • Survivial Tip #7: Navigating Long Distance After the Wedding Day
  • Survival Tip #8: When You Feel Like You're Living A Double Life
  • Survival Tip #9: You Can't Amazon Prime Your Period
  • Survival Tip #10: Embracing Hairy Ankles and Other Imperfections that Will be Exposed
  • Survival Tip #11: How to Escape When You Feel 'Trapped'
  • Survival Tip #12: Addressing Different Expectations and the Tension of Timelines
  • Survival Tip #13: Commit to Breaking Unhealthy Cycles
  • Survival Tip #14: Build Healthy Boundaries
  • Survival Tip #15: You Have More Power Than You Realize
  • Survival Tip #16: What to Do When You Feel Unattracted to Him...
  • Survival Tip #17: Balancing Your Friendships with Your Marriage
  • Survival Tip #18: Counseling isn’t For Weenies
  • Survival Tip #19: Tackling Tough Transitions as a Team
  • Survival Tip #20: Pick Up the Poop (Seriously)
  • Survival Tip #21: Quit Trying to Be a “Good Wife”
  • Survival Tip #22: Be Smart In How You Split Holidays and Family Time
  • Survival Tip #23: Priortize Prayer
  • Survival Tip #24: Dream Together

THIS IS A RESOURCE YOU CAN REFERENCE AGAIN AND AGAIN AS YOU BUILD YOUR MARRIAGE THESE NEXT FEW YEARS

1. Download the ebook (and access it from anywhere)  

2. Feel less alone (andpossibly pee your pants laughing along the way)  

3. Apply the tips inside (without the pressure to be perfect)  

4. Thrive in Your Newlywed Life (no more “bad wife” talk)

When You Purchase, You'll Get: 

24 Chapters of Material

Inside this ebook, you'll laugh, cry, and probably feel like someone is reading your diary all at once. You'll get 24 chapters packed full of relevant truth and wisdom, hilarious stories that are sure to make you feel more normal, and practical action steps you can implement right away to make simple, doable improvements in your wife life. 

Challenges & Questions  

In most chapters, you'll be faced with straight up challenging questions that might make your soul feel a little exposed. If you form a local group or digital book club around this resource, these questions will serve as a great conversation guide to get you talking about things you're really facing in your marriages!

Community 

We wives need each other. I've found there are so many groups and communities online for moms but so few for women in those first few years of marriage. But this is a delicate season and support can be so pivotal! So, when you download this resource, you'll be invited to join the New Wife Tribe, a network of hundreds of other wives in a similar season and sharing interests with you.


What My First Access Readers Are Saying...

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE, ANYMORE.

 Stop just surviving these precious years. Download the guide, join the tribe, & THRIVE

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